Some sexologists recommend drinking alcohol in small doses before sex. This, in their opinion, "hot blood", enhances attraction, makes us liberated and prolongs the sexual intercourse.
From a physiological point of view, this can be explained by the fact that during sex, the body burns stores of glucose from the liver and alcohol from the colon. Therefore, if your sex will last more than 15 minutes, doctors recommend eating something sweet before it. Or, for example, drink wine. Alcohol is absorbed into the blood faster than sugar, giving strength.
However, it is important to find the very middle ground, because by taking a little more on the chest, you can start the reverse process, and then no one will enjoy sex. Each drink has its own characteristics, so let's try to figure out which alcohol is better to choose before sex, and how it affects sex.
How does alcohol affect potency?
How exactly alcohol will affect the functioning of the reproductive system depends on how often and what exactly the man drinks. A small amount of alcohol before sex will not cause much harm and, conversely, will contribute to the relaxation of the nervous system and slightly dull the acuity of the nerve endings. Such an effect is indispensable in psychogenic disorders, when a man cannot completely relax, because he is afraid of failure.
In addition, a small amount of alcohol prevents premature ejaculation, which is due to a slight decrease in receptor sensitivity and the rate of signal transmission to the genital centers. As a result, intercourse lasts longer, but the severity of the sensation is slightly reduced. But this effect is only in those cases if alcohol is consumed in very moderate quantities and only occasionally.
If a man "indulges" in alcohol almost every day, the action will be completely different. Ethanol is one of the strongest psychotropic poisons, which, when consumed regularly, reduces the sensitivity of serotonin receptors and changes the structure of nerve endings. Spreading through the body along with the blood, alcohol particles penetrate into all internal organs, affecting their structures and causing dysfunction. The same happens with the reproductive system. If you regularly consume alcohol, for potency it will turn out as follows:
- libido is gradually weakened;
- an erection will occur from time to time weaker, even in a sober state;
- the inability to achieve ejaculation will follow.
It should be borne in mind that over time, such symptoms will only intensify. If you do not change your lifestyle and seek professional help, the organs of the reproductive system will never function as before.
Cognac
The effect of an alcoholic on an erection varies with the type of alcohol. Cognac is considered the safest for potency. We are talking only about a high-quality drink, which is produced on the basis of natural raw materials and aged in wooden barrels. If you drink 30 ml of the product before intercourse, this will lead to increased blood circulation and activation of the brain centers. As a result, the sexual intercourse will be brighter and more prolonged.
On a note!Cognac is not recommended for men suffering from renal pathologies and high blood pressure.
Vodka
This type of alcohol will definitely not help create a romantic atmosphere, but from a medical point of view, vodka among alcoholic beverages is the best choice before sex, since we are talking about pure alcohol without chemical additives. The drunkenness from vodka comes slowly and lasts a long time. In order not to spoil sex after vodka, a man can drink no more than 150 g. Drinking vodka on an ongoing basis is strictly prohibited, since with regular consumption several years later, the male's sexual function is greatly inhibited.
Wine
A beneficial effect on a man's potency is exerted by such a type of alcohol as dry red wine. A quality product contains antioxidants and components that stimulate the activity of the digestive tract, as well as promote blood thinning and the elimination of cholesterol. One glass of dry red wine will not have a detrimental effect on potency, and to some extent even enhance it - sex after wine will be bright and emotional.
Beer
Although beer is considered a weak alcohol, it is this beer that has the most negative impact on a man's reproductive health. This effect is due to the high content of phytoestrogens in the product - plant analogues of female sex hormones. When ingested, they block the production of the main male hormone testosterone, as a result of which the potency deteriorates significantly.
"And you are nothing"
Scientists at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln looked at the circumstances and factors that affect men and how they are objectively judged by women.
The study involved 49 men aged 20 years. 29 participants in the experiment received two alcoholic drinks, and the rest received a placebo (supposedly alcoholic in this case).
The participants were shown photographs of 80 girls, after which they were asked to rate the appearance and the level of attractiveness of those depicted. Eye tracking technology has been used to assess which parts of a woman's body men are looking at.
Women's photographs have previously been evaluated by an independent commission for how much warmth, good nature, friendliness, competence, intelligence, confidence and attractiveness they exude.
The results showed that when the men drank, they spent less time looking at their faces and focusing more on their figure. Those who were assessed by experts as "warm and kind" were practically not noticed by drunk men. The researchers believe these findings will be effective evidence to change the way men see women.
Can I drink alcohol before intercourse?
In the course of numerous studies and experiments, it has been proven that in order to minimize the risk of dysfunction of the reproductive system, no more than 1. 5 tablespoons of alcohol can be drunk per day. At the same time, most experts advise consuming up to 70 ml of high-quality cognac. It is believed that this drink dilates blood vessels and does not lead to their narrowing after a short interval of time, unlike other types of alcohol. Elite cognac serves as a prophylactic agent that prevents the development of pathologies of the cardiovascular system.
On the other hand, it must be borne in mind that frequent drinking leads to the production of defective sperm cells, since ethyl alcohol penetrates the testicles and has a detrimental effect on the production of male semen. All this can lead to difficulties with conception and increase the risk of having a child with a physical or mental disability.
Attention!It is allowed to take small amounts of alcohol before sex to increase potency,but only if the partners do not plan to become parents in the near future.
Underwater rocks
The myth that after a glass or a couple of cocktails is taken on your chest you will get a frenzied surge of excitement, is brought up in people thanks to cinema. After all, it is there that you can often find scenes where the heroes have fun, drink alcohol, and then indulge in carnal pleasures in a fit of passion. Perhaps this works in practice. It is quite natural to experience something like arousal after intoxicating drinks. Only it has nothing to do with real desire. First of all, because alcohol is not capable of influencing it in a good way.
It is worth understanding that even a glass of wine can affect the brain. This changes perception, reduces sensitivity and sometimes even gets rid of the instinct for self-preservation. The more a person drinks, the more likely they are to be disappointed instead of intimacy. After all, almost every young man experiences only a feeling of shame in the morning and does not want to repeat the sad experience. When alcohol is consumed, the assessment of potential partners also decreases. Appearance and intellectual abilities no longer matter. The most important thing is consent to have sex. At the same time, both sexes suffer from this alignment.
For girls, such frivolous behavior is fraught with many bad things. It can be casual sex with a person you shouldn't sleep with (a friend's boyfriend, for example) or even a sad experience of group sex. Sometimes it is difficult to call it voluntary intimacy, because some guys may well take advantage of the state of a drunk and weak-willed woman.
The fact is obvious - if you like to periodically sit in a large company, where you do not know everyone well, and at the same time do not control what you drink, then you are at risk. At the same time, it is very difficult to prove that this drunken sex was rape. Therefore, all ladies who somehow care about their reputation and health need to refrain from drunkenness it is not clear where and it is not clear with whom.
Guys also do not avoid a sad fate. The drunken state in the same way relieves of any remorse, moral principles and other social husks. There is only one instinct left - to find yourself a partner. And often these mistresses are not the best "sort". The likelihood of getting sexually transmitted diseases from such traveling companions is not small. Is it worth a few minutes of awkward floundering in order to then lay out a tidy sum for treatment with a doctor?
Definitely not worth it. In addition, do not forget about such a moment as pregnancy. And it’s good if the girl doesn’t have any complaints and solves this problem herself (although it’s more a matter of male responsibility), but there are those who are able to arrange a real hell for their "beloved".
All these disadvantages are not a complete list of how negative alcohol consumption in front of sex can be. You can add here also the fact that alcohol lovers lose sensitivity over time. This is especially true for men. An erection will come less and less, hold on less and less, and there may be no pleasure at all. And then impotence is not far off and that's it - goodbye to a rich sex life. Of course, this will not happen if you allow yourself to drink a couple of cocktails or beers once a month. But if this happens with depressing frequency, then it is recommended to reconsider your bad habits.
Alcoholic sex
For many young people just entering sex life, alcohol-free sex is difficult, which is most often associated with shyness and self-doubt. Many couples consume alcohol before and during sex to loosen up and let their desires come out.
In some situations, this approach actually improves the quality of intercourse. But this happens only if high-quality alcohol is consumed and in small quantities. If you consume too much alcohol before contact, it can cause not only difficulty with an erection, but also problems with the onset of orgasm.
In addition, the intensity of the contact may not be as strong as "to a sober head. "Alcohol such as beer is especially detrimental to the quality of sex. In most cases, men and women do not limit themselves to drinking one glass and drink several mugs at once. Since the foam has a strong diuretic effect, the functioning of the urinary system is activated, which is why partners have an increased need to go to the toilet, which is extremely inconvenient in intimate moments.
Unnatural permissiveness
Why do people like to drink wine or beer so much? Why do they go to bars and order beautiful, steaming or icy cocktails? How does a shot of whiskey work on the body? The answers to the question are fairly obvious. Alcohol helps many to get out of their shell and become much more open to communication. People who can sometimes afford to hang out with friends note the fact that after drinking, conversations become more frank and fun. A person gets pleasure, but all this is real only up to a certain point.
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There are those for whom alcohol is a kind of elixir for all their own weaknesses. I drank - and you are already irresistible, sexy and desirable. And in this state, it's much easier to make non-binding romantic acquaintances. The mechanism of the influence of alcohol itself is interesting.
It does not change the person himself, it only corrects his perception. And not only himself, but everyone around him. Until recently, they could not pay attention to the most ordinary guys or girls, but after a few glasses of wine it seems to them that they cannot find a more beautiful life partner. Some people like this illusion, so drinking alcohol becomes regular.
People sometimes drink in order to simply cheer themselves up. After all, when drunk, the world itself seems more friendly. And if the world is so good, then why not relax and accept the happiness that has fallen on yourself? As they say, drunk and knee-deep in the sea. But in an intimate life, if it is full and healthy, there is no place for simple jokes and momentary desires. After all, to have fun, you need to be able to concentrate on it. And if the consciousness is clouded, it is much more difficult to do it. So it turns out that on the one hand, alcohol helps to get rid of embarrassment, and on the other hand, it interferes with reaching orgasm.
The effects of alcohol addiction on male strength
Alcoholism adversely affects the state of all internal organs and systems, including reproductive function.
Many representatives of the stronger sex, suffering from alcohol addiction for several years, subsequently face the following problems:
- if ethyl alcohol is constantly present in the body, the vessels are in a constricted state. Because of this, the blood stagnates and does not flow in the proper volume to the genitals - the risk of developing prostatitis increases;
- libido decreases, erection worsens or disappears completely;
- regular drinking of alcoholic beverages worsens the nervous state and leads to depression, which also reduces libido.
In addition, alcohol abuse has a detrimental effect on the liver, heart and other organs, which leads to the development of various chronic diseases.
Dangerous ties
A group of scientists from the Canadian Center for Research on Addictive Habits and Their Effects on Mental Health concluded that alcohol consumption often provokes us to have unprotected sex. The more you drink, the more readiness.
Experts conducted 12 experiments, during which they divided the participants into two groups: "drinkers" and "teetotalers". Surveys and interviews have shown unequivocally that those who did not drink more often thought about contraception. As it was found out, in the "drinking" group it turned out that an increase in the concentration of alcohol in the blood by 0. 1 mg / ml increases the readiness for "dangerous" sex by about 5%.
Potency after quitting alcohol
For most men, giving up regular alcohol consumption is quite difficult. As a result, the psycho-emotional state worsens, and the potency becomes even worse. However, in most cases it is possible to regain masculine strength. To do this, you need to understand that recovery will take some time.
To restore potency and fertility after prolonged alcohol intake, it is recommended to adhere to these recommendations
- it is necessary to make an appointment with a urologist, who, after taking an anamnesis and evaluating the test results, will tell you how to proceed. In most cases, patients are prescribed medication;
- a man who has given up alcohol needs to lead a healthy lifestyle and sign up for the gym, since physical activity contributes to the production of testosterone;
- you need to quit smoking;
- it is required to adjust the diet and refuse harmful products. Nuts, carrots, honey and seafood should be present in the diet every day, as they increase potency.
"How embarrassing"
New York University scientist Joseph Palamar and his colleagues have published a study according to which alcohol consumption is more likely to lead to unplanned sex, for which afterwards feel ashamed. The results are published in the journal.
The researchers went to nightclubs and dance festivals in New York City to survey 679 participants about alcohol and drug use. The respondents were 18-25 years old.
Alcohol has been found to be more likely to be associated with regret after unplanned sex than even drugs.
Change positions and rest
You can change postures during sex, which allows you to get a break and reduce arousal at the same time. It is also to diversify sex, which makes it even brighter and more intense.
As orgasm approaches, you can simply take a break and lie in bed with your partner hugging and caressing your partner. It will be very pleasant for her, and you will accumulate strength and reduce excitement, which will allow you to rush into battle with renewed strength.
Masturbation or masturbation
The time has passed when masturbating or masturbating, whoever it is more pleasant, was shameful and condemned by the people around you. In the 21st century, science has proven that being naughty with your little friend is not only harmful to her, but, on the contrary, is useful! The main thing in everything is to know when to stop and maintain a balance.
So, one of the main reasons for the rapid ejaculation in a man is the lack of sex in a man for a long period of time. Therefore, in order not to pass up in front of a woman, it is better to perform an act of masturbation the day before sexual intercourse or immediately before it. Thus, you will increase the time of having sex with a woman in a completely simple and enjoyable way.
Also, constant masturbation will teach you how to manage your sex drive. In the process of masturbation, you can learn to recognize your feelings by increasing the pace, increasing the pressure on the head and the penis itself. All these workouts will help you control the process even when you have sex with a woman.
Kegel exercises
Certain muscle groups are responsible for erection, semen discharge, and orgasm. Therefore, experts have developed certain exercises to influence the desired muscles, in order to thereby teach a man self-control during intercourse. The main emphasis is on pumping the pubococcygeal muscle.
There are two ways to find the LK muscle:
- During urination, a man needs to stop the stream of urine several times. The muscle that will be involved during this action is the PC muscle.
- During a morning erection, a man needs to move his penis, straining and relaxing the PC muscle.
Further, a man needs to alternately strain and relax this muscle as often as possible during the day. You need to do exercises for at least a month in order to achieve significant results. This can be done by squeezing first for 4-5 seconds and relaxing for the same period of time, then contracting and unclenching for 15-20 seconds and alternating with short squeezes for a couple of seconds.